Is Performance Coaching right for me?
For those ready to take calculated ACTION toward a better version of themselves
The Offense is a coaching system is designed for people who know they’re capable of more, not just more productivity, but more presence, purpose, and alignment towards goals that are meaningful to them
Even with past achievements, many find themselves stuck operating at only 60–80% of their full potential.
We call this the 60–80 Dilemma, that frustrating feeling that despite outward success, there’s still something missing and you desire for a more energized, intentional, and fully engaged version of your life.
This isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s about shifting HOW you operate.
Many people live their life in defense mode.
They respond to the day instead of leading it.
They’re always “on,” but lack deep fulfillment.
Defense mode can look like:
Starting your day reacting to emails, messages, and other people’s priorities
Working out hard, but inconsistently or without purpose
Having ideas but struggling to act on them
Overanalyzing, hesitating, or procrastinating
Drifting in relationships or routines without clarity
Feeling mentally busy but emotionally flat
A life on offense is different.
It’s built on intention.
It’s supported by systems.
And it’s guided by five foundational pillars:
The 5 Pillars of
The Offense
These pillars are what we train when living a life on offense. Each one addresses a different area of your capacity physical, mental, emotional, relational, and environmental. By focusing on these pillars every single area of your life will improve, relationships, carrear, finances and more. Investing in living your life on offense is an investment in your future self.
1. Movement
Reclaim your energy. Build your body. Crush your goals.
Your physical body is your foundation. Training with intention not just intensity builds strength, presence, and discipline.
Examples of work in this pillar:
Creating a consistent and meaningful movement practice
Programming strength or mobility routines around your real schedule
Using breath and movement to shift your state (not just burn calories)
“The body is the place you start to lead from.”
2. Recovery
Performance depends on rest, not just effort.
Many high performers ignore recovery until burnout forces them to slow down. We shift that pattern by building intentional recovery into your weekly structure.
Examples may include:
Establishing wind-down and sleep rituals
Integrating cold, heat, or stillness into your rhythm
Practicing nervous system down-regulation through breath or time in nature
“Strength in stillness.”
3. Mindset
Clarity. Resilience. Emotional Fitness.
Mindset isn’t just about thinking positively it’s about becoming more aware of your internal patterns and learning to lead yourself through them.
You’ll work on:
Reframing limiting beliefs
Developing a lasting growth focused mindset
Clarifying internal narratives and self-talk
Building emotional regulation tools under pressure
Journaling or guided reflection to anchor learning
“Your internal world becomes your external reality.”
4. Community
Accountability, connection, and relational growth.
You weren’t meant to do this alone. Real growth happens faster when you’re supported, seen, and held accountable.
Examples may include:
Practicing relational honesty and boundary setting
Building rituals of connection (with partners, peers, or teams)
Learning how to share wins and struggles with intention
Using group coaching or check-ins to normalize your growth process
“You become more fully yourself when reflected in others.”
5. Environment
Your systems either support you or sabotage you.
From your physical space to your digital setup, your environment is always shaping your energy and focus. We help you learn about your individual biology to take control of your most valuable assets, time and attention.
Work here might include:
Optimizing your workspace and recovery zones
Reducing digital clutter and distraction
Creating ritual anchors in your day (e.g., morning setups, journaling stations)
Auditing the relationships, content, and habits that surround you
Systems for integrating peak performance flow states into your everyday life
“You don’t rise to your goals, you fall to your systems.”
How It All Comes Together
This isn’t theory. It’s practical, personalized, and highly actionable.
Through 1:1 coaching you’ll identify where you’re stuck, align your goals with your deeper values, and build the structure and accountability to move forward.
To put it simply: Less Talk, More Action = Results
What our clients often face before starting:
Overwhelm from competing demands
Temporary motivation dips that derail progress
Mental clutter and decision fatigue
Self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or avoidance
Relationship stress and poor boundaries
Physical burnout or inconsistent habits
What they gain:
Clearer direction and simplified priorities
Increased emotional and physical energy
Tangible, sustainable routines that support real life
Greater capacity to lead themselves and others
A felt sense of progress, clarity, and internal leadership
Increased financial control and growth
You’re not built to operate at 60–80%.
Stop reacting to life defensively and starting living your life
ON OFFENSE.
You can’t WIN
If you don’t SCORE
How does Coaching Work?
4 step process
I: Intel
This first step is critical in setting a solid foundation for your coaching experience. It helps us understand how we can best lead and support you. We take the time to learn about your goals, relationships, motivations, hobbies, challenges, strengths, weaknesses and more. Think of this as a self-audit. There is absolutely no judgment. We want to get to know who you are and who you want to become.
II: Mindset Audit
After building an understanding of who you are, the next step is focused on understanding your current mental landscape. Where might you be limiting yourself? How might fear play a role in your thinking? We use this information to guide our direction to uncover blindspots in your mindset that may be preventing you from achieving your goals or living the life you want.
III: Coaching Toolbox
As we start to build a picture of where your strengths and weaknesses are, we then leverage technology through our custom coaching app to build a clear roadmap that will help you optimize your life through action. Our coaches use this platform to send field notes, recaps, check-ins and other resources all designed to provide you the tools you need to succeed. It’s also a simple way to keep an open line of communication with our team.
IV: Action-Oriented Accountability
Based on the game plan that our team designed for you, the next and final step is to take action. Your coach will hold you accountable to the goals and actions that you agreed to. Each call is then used as a check-in point to ensure we stay on track together, optimizing as necessary.
“We don’t rise to the level of our expectations; we fall to the level of our training.”
- Archilochus, Greek Poet
Ready to start living life on offense?
FAQs
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Differences between coaching and psychotherapy:
Coaches focus on the future. Therapists focus on the past.
Coaches center their work around the belief that clients are healthy. Therapists utilize a framework that is based on pathology and illness.
Coaches work with the conscious mind. Therapists work with the unconscious mind.
Coaches’ work is often time-limited with specific desired behavioral outcomes. Therapists’ work is open-ended with “understanding” as the primary objective.
Coaches’ check on you in between sessions and hold you accountable to the work each week.
Similarities between coaching and psychotherapy:
Both are concerned with making concrete changes in your emotional state and life.
Both work to understand the self-limiting beliefs or behavior caused by thoughts and emotions that you may or may not be aware of.
Both practices help you grow, change and master your emotions.
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100%. You have the capability to create positive change in your life. It’s a matter of leveraging your strengths, using the right tools and having someone to hold you accountable that will get you there. We’ve witnessed numerous clients undergo significant transformation by getting clear on what they want, putting a support system in place to get there and deciding to take action.
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We use a wide variety of coaching styles based upon what will resonate most with and help the client create change: Our most used styles are:
TRANSFORMATION FOCUSED -
While we typically gauge individual change by observable behaviors, the most significant transformations occur at a deeper, less visible level. By fostering self-awareness, adjusting how we perceive things, and embracing new perspectives, we can unlock substantial personal and professional growth.
Systemic change facilitates flexible adaptation rather than simply following set procedures. This, in turn, enables us to skillfully navigate the intricate dynamics of our relationships, careers, and overall life experiences.
POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY -
The science of happiness and human flourishing.
Positive psychological coaching employs a comprehensive approach toward development, which aids clients to identify and actively deploy their character strengths as well as acknowledges the multiple contexts which influences their lives. Research showed that this novel approach to people development leads to various positive consequences for both the individual (e.g., improved performance, self-efficacy, life satisfaction, self-confidence etc.) and the organization (e.g., talent retention, employee engagement, customer satisfaction, financial growth etc.
COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR COACHING -
CBC (Cognitive Behavioral Coaching) doesn't aim to provide direct solutions to individuals' issues. Instead, it employs a collaborative approach known as guided discovery to assist them in arriving at their own insights and resolutions. Guided discovery draws inspiration from the Socratic method, wherein the coach poses a sequence of questions to help individuals uncover relevant information and enhance their decision-making skills through insightful reflection.
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Open and vital discussions are faced directly and without hesitation when they are deemed necessary.
HOLISTIC -
In today's world, there's a prevailing emphasis on specialization, reductionism, and isolation. Despite this trend, our coaching philosophy takes a holistic, integrative, and systemic approach.
We recognize that changes made in one aspect of life frequently reverberate and affect others. By delving into the root causes of a specific challenge and addressing them effectively, we can trigger a cascade of positive effects, influencing multiple areas of your life.
This approach leads to genuine, enduring transformation rather than merely masking issues with temporary solutions.
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While our coaches universally acknowledge the importance of the journey toward achieving results, they remain flexible in their choice of tools, techniques, and approaches.
This flexibility enables us to swiftly pivot to alternative strategies or methods if the current approach proves ineffective. Our core coaching style is characterized by adaptability, continuous refinement, and a relentless focus on achieving outcomes.
We frequently employ practical, precisely targeted strategies and tools to facilitate more efficient progress toward accomplishing goals.
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At minimum, our coaching commitment is 2-months long. This is when most of our clients start to see results. We also offer 6-12 month coaching commitments for those who want or need it. Some of our clients have been with us for over 10 years.
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Before delving into our coaching methodology, it's important to discuss how our coaches engage with you, the client. We firmly hold the belief that you are the authority on your own life. We view you as complete and not in need of fixing. We see you as inherently resourceful and possessing untapped potential beyond your current perception. We have full confidence in your ability to enact meaningful change.
Our coaching approach is centered around an organic, iterative process that addresses your needs holistically. Through meaningful conversations, we aim to stimulate fresh perspectives, foster transformative insights, and encourage behavioral shifts. This process is geared towards enhancing performance, clarifying direction, achieving personal and professional objectives, and ultimately enriching your overall quality of life.
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Your weekly time commitment will vary based on your circumstances and goals. Most clients spend between 1-4 hours a week with us.
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Results will vary based on your specific goals. Typical outcomes that we see with our clients include:
Increased mental clarity and a clear action plan forward
Increased confidence
Deeper connection and understanding of themselves and the people around them
Reduced anxiety and stress
A personalized roadmap for how to minimize distractions
Performance growth system that fits their unique needs
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Not at the moment.
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Absolutely. What is said, discussed or happens in our sessions, stays in our sessions. We understand the value of trust in making the decision to hire a coach. We take every precaution to safeguard that. Upon signing up, we will provide you with a detailed description of the ethical code that governs every client-coach relationship that we enter. This document not only provides transparency into our standards but also codifies our commitment to you, the client, and your progress.